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??? I'm kindof unclear on what you're saying here, Delta. ???

hello guys... here I put a letter that wrote David Deangelo which is basically his work.. I hope you read it.
..... then I put the belief system that a naturally cool succesful guy in the dating world should have according to David Deangelo.



A Real Man
“What do women mean when they say “I want a REAL MAN?”... A REAL MAN is a
universal desire among women. Women all over the world, across all ages and incomes
are looking for the same thing, and they describe it in basically the same way. But what
exactly is a REAL man? And why do they use these words and describe him this way?
What do they NOT want? Well, to begin with, I believe that they DON'T want a
WUSSY. Women, and especially attractive, desirable women who have choices are used
to men chasing after them, kissing up to them, and demonstrating that they believe the
woman is a rare and valuable prize.
When a guy calls too often, shares his feelings too soon or too much, tries to ‘buy’ a
woman's attention and affection with gifts, dinners, and favors, and generally puts his
own life, self-respect, and needs aside for a woman, he is a WUSSY. This Is the opposite
of a REAL MAN. A REAL MAN has his own life. He has his act together. Sure, he'd
LIKE to find a beautiful, intelligent woman to enjoy time with, but he doesn't NEED it.
And when he meets and interacts with attractive women, he demonstrates in every little
way that he's COMFORTABLE with himself, and he's comfortable with women. He
holds and carries himself like he owns the entire city he lives in. When he makes eye
contact with a woman he doesn't look away instantly out of nervous self-consciousness...
instead he keeps looking, as if to say “I see something that might interest me—let me
take a moment to consider it”. He is cool and calm at all times, and his movements are
just a little slower than those of other men. Everything about him suggests that he doesn't
need to hurry, because things are going to work out the way he wants in the end anyway.
A REAL MAN communicates with attractive women in a way that confuses and excites
them at the same time. Because he is so un-self conscious and he's NOT looking for a
woman's approval, he says things that are totally unexpected. A REAL MAN isn't afraid
to say what's on his mind, or to even make fun of a woman... just because he feels like it.
It's obvious that he's being who he is, and this easy grace and lack of insecurities about
himself are magnetic. He's respectful - yet brutally honest. He's not apologetic or overly
eager to say he's sorry (especially because he knows how to handle his life in such a way
that he doesn't CREATE problems by being immature, late, dishonest or otherwise flaky).
He is spontaneous, yet responsible. He isn't afraid to speak his mind or have an opinion.
He doesn't live his life to please anyone - parents, friends, and especially women. He
never acts like or communicates that he's a VICTIM. A REAL MAN is what every
woman wants, but he's so rare that many women doubt that they'll ever find him.
-David DeAngelo


•I'm a good communicator—especially of what I want.
•I'm in control and don't let outside events destabilize me.
•I'm not needy... I keep my power for me.
•I think sex is great and have no hang-ups.
•I'm comfortable around women.
•I can control myself and can wait patiently.
•I don't tolerate disrespect of myself, my time, or my property.
•I'm a catch.
•I'm not impressed by outward symbols, such as money or status.
•I may be smitten by a woman, but I don’t tell her early on, and I don't let it 'slip' indirectly.
•I don't let women use their looks or sexual power to take advantage. .I give them no special privileges.
•I'm not self-conscious and could care less what others think about me.
•I put myself and my life first.
•I deserve and can hold an exceptional woman.
•I am indifferent to the outcome.
•I understand the culture, and I 'get it' - cosmo, MTV, style, food, music,
humor, etc.
•I can deal with any test a woman throws at me... in fact, it's usually
kind of cute.
•I live in my reality, and you´re a guest.
•I'm at cause in the world, not an effect. I make things happen.

Id go on neal strauss stuff. he said to be "the best you" not being someone fake, and that is integrous. I believe many who choose that path do experience spiritual gain, Neil Strauss being the one with the most gain,

I recommend Brent Smith if you seek this path. He turns his clients on to such things as the Sedona Method, Power of Now, Course of Miracles, etc.

Hi everyone,

i used to read loads of different stuff on 'seduction' especially though my teenage years, and found it all to be missing a vital bit of info. I bought the 'sexuality' affice series by David Hawkins and he clarifies the whole situation.

Sexuality is Desire which is basically Greed - viewing sexuality from a lacking viewpoint. Hawkins talks about high energy sex and low energy sex and the difference between them.

to sum up the CD (which i recommend anyone reading this topic to buy) is;

Desire blocks the flow of the desired object, i.e the more you want it, the less likely you will get it

Sexuality predominately has been associated with the physical body and it's performance and appearance

There is nothing out there that has sexual energy, it's all a projection of the images held within. You decide what you find attractive, whether it's blonde, brunette, fat, slim, or in some cultures, rings around the neck, or piercings through the face.

Viewing sexuality from that viewpoint of desire brings all the other negative emotions as the field is in a negative direction

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That's all i can remember of the top of my head, if you're interested ask or the best thing would be to buy the CD.

Hope this is helpful

Brent is definitely a good one. I've find that if you want a Love based approach to pickup that also includes ideas about spirituality that you should try ideagasms. ideagasms.net Run by this guy Stephane Hemon.

Hi Major Unit.. how are you doing ?

Just a question out of curiosity: are you brent smith ? ...
Just because I am watching a interview with brent smith and david deangelo right now! and the question just pop into my mind

Yours...

Gabriel

A couple of years ago I got a lot out of Stephane's mix of chakra healing, Celestine Prophecy personality typologies and affirmations. According to his blog, he has been drawing from Dr. Hawkins recently. Somewhat frivolously also, if I may put my positionality out there.

He is integrous, below reason, as far as I understand and test.

Hi Major Unit.. how are you doing ?

Just a question out of curiosity: are you brent smith ? ...
Just because I am watching a interview with brent smith and david deangelo right now! and the question just pop into my mind



Haha. Nah, I'm not Brent. As far as Steph goes, he's just another guy. He has his own "issues" as far teaching spirtuality based pickup goes, but someone I found particularly helpful. I find it's best to keep from seeing anyone as a "guru", because even enlightened people can be subject to pride.

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Makes sense.

Eben Pagan (David DeAngelo) is trying to help other people, which is reflective of his calibration in the 300's. He runs a successful business that is based on self-help programs. The only problem with his particular dating material is that much of it is teaching people how to be desirable to the EGO of the female gender, namely, how to mimic the level of 190 or Pride (which is attractive, sexually or otherwise, to anyone below 200).

I suspect if you calibrate his business Get Altitude program and other things he has made outside of the dating realm, they will calibrate positively. Also, specific things he teaches about dating such as "you must take responsibility for your own growth" probably calibrate positively as well.


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I was a member of Stephane's forum for awhile, until I was banned for no reason I can remember :(

Stephane has claimed that he calibrates in the 500's. I think he has said he calibrates at Unconditional Love, 540, but I'm not sure.

I have doubts though: I believe Stephane may have calibrated at 500+, but there is a good chance he has since fallen below that, though probably still resides in integrity.

Dr. Hawkins has talked about one of the temptations of the spiritual seeker being sexual opportunities, and Stephane DEFINITELY has taken advantage of his spiritual development for the gain of sex and women. I suspect this has brought down his calibration, though I am not sure.